没收孩子的压岁钱？你正在培养一个潜在的穷人！
<p style="text-align: right;"><br/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-backh="291" data-backw="395" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.7367088607594937" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325ol0nn0uajpyw60yj.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="395" style="white-space: normal;width: 574px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="100%"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><section data-id="132"><section><section><section data-brushtype="text"><section data-id="132"><section><section><section data-brushtype="text"><section data-style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; word-break: break-all; word-wrap: break-word; text-align: justify;"><section class="" data-mpa-template-id="91" data-mpa-color="#ffffff" data-mpa-category="quote"><section data-preserve-color="t"><section data-preserve-color="t"><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">春节是个教会孩子认识钱，理解钱，对钱有正确的态度的最佳机会！</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" data-mpa-template-id="983271" data-mpa-color="null" data-mpa-category="fav"><section class=""><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><section class=""><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #7B0C00;"><strong> 01 </strong></span></p></section><p><br/></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">该不该在春节过后，没收孩子收到的红包？</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">这是最近无数家长咨询的问题。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">我的答案是不应该没收。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">可能这个答案会让很多家长感到不满意，可是却很有教育意义。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-backh="334" data-backw="473" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.7061310782241015" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325fgf1yg7ggghmfplg.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="473" style="width: 574px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="100%"/></p><p><br/></p><section class="" data-mpa-template-id="983271" data-mpa-color="null" data-mpa-category="fav"><section class=""><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><section class=""><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #7B0C00;"><strong> 02 </strong></span></p></section><section><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">清崎先生曾在《富爸爸，穷爸爸》中说过，只要孩子一开始对钱感兴趣，就该教他们理财了。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">可惜，中国很多家长并没有这种意识。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">他们会理所当然地认为，给孩子吃得饱，穿得暖，东西够用，根本不用给孩子零花钱，更不用提把春节不劳而获的巨款——压岁钱，留给孩子，进而教会他们理财意识。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">他们出奇一致地认为和担心：<strong>孩子有钱会学坏。</strong></span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">然而，早已有研究调查数据显示，世界各国的犯罪率和贫穷是成正比的。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">也就是说，<strong>一个人越是认为自己贫穷，犯罪率就越高。</strong></span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">我曾认识这样一个孩子，他很聪明，学习成绩特别好，对绘画也特别有天赋。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">他的家庭属于小康家庭，然而父母对金钱却特别谨慎。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">从不给孩子零花钱，春节过后更会强制没收孩子的压岁钱。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">孩子从小就没有自己可以支配的金钱，渴望买一套绘画工具时，也要好说歹说，父母才勉强给予他费用。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">然而，更多的时候，哪怕他哭着闹着，父母都不会满足他的购买需求。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">他们最常挂嘴边的话就是：你一个小孩子要用什么钱？家里供你吃，供你穿，你还有什么不满足？</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">后来，孩子在这种压制金钱欲望的环境中，对金钱更加渴望，开始出现了偷钱行为。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">而父母发现孩子偷钱，所采取的方式就是打、骂。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">有效吗？有，孩子后来真不偷家里的钱了。他去偷别人家里的钱。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">再后来，孩子因为盗窃罪被关进了看守所。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">说实话，我一直替这样一个充满灵气的孩子感到可惜和遗憾，摊上了这样不懂教育，也不懂儿童需求的父母，泯灭了天性不说，还让人生背负了污点。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">不得不说，很多时候，一个不合格的父母绝对是孩子人生的祸害。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-backh="332" data-backw="500" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.664" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325ibtc61cacwb1r1ow.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" style="width: 574px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="100%"/></p><section class="" data-mpa-template-id="983271" data-mpa-color="null" data-mpa-category="fav"><section class=""><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><section class=""><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #7B0C00;"><strong><br/></strong></span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: #7B0C00;color: #FFFFFF;"><strong><span style="background-color: #7B0C00;"> 03 </span></strong></span></p></section><section><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">国际著名投资大师彼得·林奇曾说：一个人未来的财富并不取决于他的智商和情商，而是取决于他的财商。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">而财商，是指一个人如何理解金钱、管理金钱的能力。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">父母对孩子在成长中对金钱的需求没有意识，除了会让孩子走上歧途的概率变大，更会剥夺孩子认识金钱的机会，从而使孩子丧失对金钱的管理能力。</span></strong></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">2016年，重庆有两个孩子在春节期间攒了不少钱，由于担心开学后，压岁钱会被父母没收，于是便决定在父母“出手”前把钱花光。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.2409502262443439" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325jfh13v39g466xhv3.png" data-type="png" data-w="884" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">仅仅一天一夜的时候，他们便把几千块的压岁钱花得所剩无几。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">因为从小父母没有给予他们好的金钱体验，所以这两个孩子失去了对金钱管理的机会。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">殊不知，这种不尊重孩子在零花钱或压岁钱方面处理意愿的行为，会难以让孩子去树立正确的金钱观念，塑造自己的积极财商意识。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">而这，轻则容易让孩子产生报复性消费；重则容易让孩子在成长中泯灭人性，蒙蔽良心干尽蠢事。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">如电视剧《人民的名义》中，国家某部委某项目处长赵德汉，由于从小对金钱极度匮乏，长大后，他便利用自己的责权和人脉，贪污受贿了两亿三千九百九十九万五千四百元。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">而当他的丑行被揭发时，面对满满一冰箱的人民币，他竟哭着解释：</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">“我一分钱都没花，我们家祖祖辈辈都是农民，穷怕了。”</span></strong></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">因为从小没有得到好的金钱体验，所以他极度缺乏安全感，他不得不通过大量财富来获得心理慰藉。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">然而，因为从小无法正确认识和驾驭金钱，哪怕拥有再多的财富，都无法弥补他那颗穷得千疮百孔的心。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">最终，他也不过是一个彻彻底底的金钱的奴隶。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">可见，从小教会孩子认识钱，理解钱，对钱有正确的态度，在教育中是一件多么重要的事情。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-backh="408" data-backw="542" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.7518587360594795" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325l45k4g6zksng69ak.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1076" style="width: 574px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="100%"/></p><section class="" data-mpa-template-id="983271" data-mpa-color="null" data-mpa-category="fav"><section class=""><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><section class=""><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #7B0C00;"><strong> 04 </strong></span></p></section><section><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">那么，父母应该如何处理孩子的压岁钱，才能让孩子对金钱有正向的认知呢？</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">首先，把压岁钱的所有权还给孩子。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">这是否意味着此后对孩子如何处理这笔钱不管不顾呢？</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">显然不是。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">无论在法律上或者道义上，父母都有义务去引导孩子如何科学支配这笔钱。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">我认识一个宝妈，她在引导孩子支配压岁钱方面就做得十分到位。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">比如，在孩子两岁的时候，她带着孩子去银行办了一张卡，并告诉孩子压岁钱存在里面。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">在孩子大一些的时候，她会根据孩子本身的意愿去和孩子协调怎么处理这笔小财富。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">比如她和孩子协商，除了学费是父母教育孩子必须支撑的义务，孩子的课外兴趣班，或者毕业旅游等，这些是属于孩子额外的精神需求，那么就要孩子自己买单。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">而所有收入和支出，她也会监督孩子做好账本记录。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">在这个过程中，孩子锻炼出了极强的规划能力，也更懂得遵守规则。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">甚至在孩子上了高中之后，孩子自然而然已经树立了多种渠道的金钱观念，会主动提出拿一部分钱去做公益。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">爱德华·罗伯特·布尔沃说：<strong>管理金钱，很大程度上就是管理自己。</strong></span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">如果一个孩子能从小在金钱方面得到父母的科学引导，他就能以更平和的心态去看待钱财，从而获得真正的自在；</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">更能明白钱只是一种工具，它既能满足人的某种需求，也能达成“给予”，帮助到他人。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">更重要的是，孩子从中学会了自律和舍得，他成为了欲望的主人。</span></strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-backh="353" data-backw="500" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.706" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325w4335s3319s4a9y6.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" style="width: 574px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="100%"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></p><section class="" data-mpa-template-id="983271" data-mpa-color="null" data-mpa-category="fav"><section class=""><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><section class=""><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;"><span style="color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #7B0C00;"><strong> 05 </strong></span></p></section><section><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">另外，不得不提的是，当前家长间的压岁钱往来，很多时候反射出的是中国社会的面子问题。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">如最近，全国各地压岁钱标准刷爆朋友圈。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.85" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171325rr4j1kdqd9zdaj6j.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">在大家都惊呼羡慕福建莆田孩子能获得高金额红包时，我更倾向于广东人重视红包本身的寓意。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">据调查显示，广东人的红包从1块到200块不等，很少超过200块的红包。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">有时一个人收到了上百封红包，总额也不过300多块。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">而这样的金额，无论发红包的人或收红包的人都不会倍感压力，反而都充满愉悦，更会减少后续父母担忧如何处理孩子红包的麻烦。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">其实，压岁钱一直以来都是春节期间，长辈给予孩子的一种祝福习俗。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">我们应该遵循这种祝福寓意，而不是把孩子当做桥梁变成成人间的人情往来，更不应该以压岁钱金额大小定义情义大小。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">唯有正确认识和践行压岁钱背后的意义，我们才能让孩子体会真正的传统节日韵味，才能潜移默化、身体力行地教会孩子树立正确金钱观念。</span></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">总而言之，为了面子坚持错误才是最大的错误，也是最没有面子的事。</span></strong></p><p><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;">在此，希望这个春节过后，家长们都能让压岁钱回归祝福本身，而这才是家长们之间最应该保持一致和坚持的事情。</span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3F3F3F;"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><img src="data/attachment/forum/201802/22/171442gy4yyipolyy1p1pt.png" alt="_20180214104030.png" aid="attachimg_635959"/></p><section style="max-width: 100%;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 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