“儿子，我为什么不替你买房”，这位母亲的理由句句震撼
<p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/170501amzr82s2z872z2vf.jpg" alt="640 (10).jpg" aid="attachimg_655180"/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.08" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1000" src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/165616f79cakzhn94l8614.jpg" data-fail="0" style="width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这几天，一个杭州妈妈写的信，在朋友圈里刷屏。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她26岁的孩子，想要父母替自己买一套房。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但这个妈妈，毫不犹豫拒绝了儿子，还给他写了一封信。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="494" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="659" data-ratio="1.3345454545454545" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="550" _width="494px" src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/165616woaga172nn2qqg5u.jpg" data-fail="0" style="visibility: visible !important; width: 100%;"/></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这封信虽然不长，但清晰给出了拒绝的四个理由：</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一、<strong>身边人买房了，并不是你买房的理由；</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">二、<strong>你已经26岁，只要哭闹一下，就能得到自己想要的东西，这个阶段该结束了；</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">三、<strong>爸爸妈妈是你的后盾，但不能永远替你冲在顶前面；</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">四、<strong>未来，应该是通过你自己努力得到的。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这封信，迅速引发沸沸扬扬的议论，但我最赞同的，是这一条网友留言:</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">@在命运中奔跑：欲望与能力、收入应该匹配，26岁了，别人不帮你买房是本分，买房不是义务，要买应该靠自己努力了。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">是的，就算是儿子和父母，也要有边界感。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">所谓边界感，就是指孩子成年后，父母要得体退出他的生活；孩子成年后，也不能过度去透支父母。想要的东西，要靠自己努力去赚。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这个母亲的四个理由，句句震撼。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">这才是为人父母的最高境界：你们彼此独立，却各自欢喜。</span></strong></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></strong></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.08" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1000" src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/165616xgq4gym2h9sqjq2f.jpg" data-fail="0" style="width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">《离婚律师》里说：</span><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">爱他，就不要把他的翅膀剪掉。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果你真的爱自己的孩子，就一定不要让他做自己的连体婴儿。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">前几天休年假，我回了老家一趟，顺道准备去拜访，一位年迈的远房亲戚。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">没料想到，吃了闭门羹。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一问才知道，60多岁的老爷子，退休后，去了附近一个小区物业上班。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">原来，儿子去年买了套大婚房。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">为支持儿子买房，老人拿出自己全部积蓄。老人还主动提出，在退休后，继续出来找工作。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">老爷子每月收入5000多，却要替儿子还3000元的房贷。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我听得无限唏嘘。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">老人曾经是县城中学里的名牌数学教师，退休后，本应该轻轻松松，尽享天伦之乐。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">现在，却不得不重新上岗。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">孩子已是成年人，既然他想住大的房子，就应该让他自己去还房贷，这是不能推卸的责任。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你大包大揽，无限介入，<strong>透支的不仅是你的积蓄，还可能会是你的人生。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.08" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1000" src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/165616y27wu2fp9f2v241x.jpg" data-fail="0" style="width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">可惜，这样的道理，不是每个人都懂。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">网络上，有一种观点是：</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">房价这么高，普通人都很难承受。让26岁的孩子去买房，太不现实，父母就应支持。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">然而，真正的现实是什么？</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你知道，发达国家买房人的平均年龄吗？</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">英国36岁、美国35岁、澳大利亚33岁，日本41岁。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">大学才毕业两三年，才26岁，买不起大城市里的房子，真没啥着急的。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">退一步来说，在更大范围内，绝大多数的父母，都支持不了孩子买房子。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">难道到最后，他们的孩子就居无定所，流离颠簸？</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不要太低估了你们的孩子。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">生活会给他们力量，摸爬滚打后，他们会积累起足够的资本，找到自己的安身之处。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">最终，在某一个城市，他们都会找到属于自己的地盘。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">最悲哀的事情是：</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>你一开始就觉得孩子是无能的，你替孩子挡住了所有的风雨。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>结果，这种过度保护，却成了孩子人生中最大的风雨，让他们不堪一击。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.08" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1000" src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/165616mmtyt8on52w6twna.jpg" data-fail="0" style="width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">有读者，曾经问作家连岳：</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">到底，要不要父母替自己出40万首付？</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我觉得连岳的一段话，讲得很好。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你还很年轻，赚钱的日子才开始， 40万不多，只要你想，很快可以赚到。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">只要你有强烈的赚钱念头。你的钱会越来越多，精神将越来越强大。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">作为父母，你们要做到的，就是不要提前扼杀了，孩子的无限可能。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果你一线城市，房价太高，你可以拿出部分钱，给孩子付首付。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但要明确告诉孩子，这是父母借给你的，以后你一定要还。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">而且，今后的房贷，你必须要自己来偿还。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果在房价不那么高的城市，你一定不能以牺牲自己的方式，去为孩子尽早铺好平坦的路。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>因为你的成全，可能成为依赖；</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>你的纵容，可能成为下一代心安理得的索取。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">他们没有吃过生活的苦，怎么会理解努力的意义，又怎么会去追求高阶的人生？</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.08" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1000" src="https://0817ch-bbs.oss-cn-shenzhen.aliyuncs.com/attachment/forum/201808/02/165616b3izggjggmmytbml.jpg" data-fail="0" style="width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">爱孩子，绝不是替他负责所有。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">龙应台说，长长的路，要慢慢的走。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>真正的教育，应该是首先告诉孩子，有些东西，你确实够不着。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>你必须加倍努力，你必须经历别人看不到的苦和累，才能一步步靠近它。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你要想住好的房子，就应该首先找到好的工作；</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你要想拿高薪，就必须去好的大学，去风口上的行业，做写字楼里厉害的人。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你要有开挂的人生，就必须自律到极致。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母的千辛万苦，父母的包打天下，只会把孩子培养成一个废人，和白眼狼。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这样的爱，性价比太低，也无法持久。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你要知道，</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一个人，十四五岁时读过的书，十七八岁时爱过的人，二十几岁交过的朋友，大学刚毕业后栽过的跟头、受过的委屈，它们会让人吃尽苦头，也会让人受益终身。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你不让孩子吃苦，社会就会让他吃苦。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">愿你像回信的杭州妈妈一样，一开始就温柔且坚定，残酷却深情。</span></p><p class="" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>再爱孩子，你也要让他适当吃苦，让他看透世界和社会的秘密，然后去更远的地方。</strong></span></p><p><br/></p>
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