“3年离婚，房子归你，孩子归我”：一个处理过400件离婚案的律师，揭露了婚姻的残...
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!important;width: auto !important;"/></section></section></section></section></section><p><mpvoice frameborder="0" class="res_iframe js_editor_audio audio_iframe" src="/cgi-bin/readtemplate?t=tmpl/audio_tmpl&name=%E4%B8%89%E5%B9%B4%E5%90%8E%EF%BC%8C%E6%88%BF%E5%AD%90%E5%BD%92%E4%BD%A0%EF%BC%8C%E5%AD%A9%E5%AD%90%E5%BD%92%E6%88%91&play_length=11:06" isaac2="0" low_size="1301.77" source_size="1331.2" high_size="5218.85" name="三年后，房子归你，孩子归我" play_length="666000" voice_encode_fileid="MjM5NDEwNjUyNV8yNjY5OTE5NzUw" style="width: 558px;"></mpvoice></p></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" class="" style="font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section data-role="paragraph" class="" style="margin-right: 0em;margin-left: 0em;border: 0px none;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" class="" style="margin-right: 0em;margin-left: 0em;border: 0px none;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="paragraph" class="" style="margin-right: 0em;margin-left: 0em;border: 0px none;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="23" style="margin-right: 0em;margin-left: 0em;border: 0px none;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin: 10px 0em;padding: 15px 20px 15px 45px;border: 0px currentcolor;vertical-align: baseline;background-image: url(data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113652zr5c6q22k6x752q2.jpg);background-color: rgb(241, 241, 241);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;background-position: 1% 5px;background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat;"><p style="text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #595959;font-size: 14px;">离婚从来不是目的，你无法想象，她有多想和你白头偕老。当时间倒退回结婚登记的那一刻，</span><span style="color: #595959;font-size: 14px;">你是否还会记得曾经许下诺言？</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 24px;"><strong><span style="color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">前</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">几天朋友圈里被这样一则视频刷屏了：</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">在访谈节目《透明人》中，姜思达采访了一位知名的离婚律师。她曾处理过至少400起离婚案件，也见证了婚姻从7年之痒变成了3年之痒。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><iframe class="video_iframe" data-vidtype="2" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" data-ratio="1.7666666666666666" data-w="848" src="https://v.qq.com/iframe/preview.html?vid=z0601bcvcmx&width=500&height=375&auto=0"></iframe><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">视频中有一段话，深深的戳痛了我。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">有人在离婚时提出这样的</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">诉求</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">：</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;font-size: 14px;">离婚可以，钻戒给我。</span></p></blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></strong></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;font-size: 14px;">我们还有一卷卫生纸，你要不要分？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;font-size: 14px;">分！</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p><img class="" data-backh="281" data-backw="534" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.52578125" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113649b77p3nk7dpakug07.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" style="width: 534px;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">曾经那么的彼此相爱，现在却只剩下厌恶。离婚时，满地都是撕裂的脸皮，丑陋又绝情。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">一段婚姻，在最初的开始时那么美好，可为何到了最后，却落得如此狼狈不堪？</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 22px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="margin-right: 2px;width: 0.3em;height: 0.3em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section><section style="margin: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="" style="margin-right: 2px;width: 1.2em;height: 1.2em;line-height: 1.2em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">1</p></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;">「丧偶式育儿」</span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">现代女性对婚姻的反对声音越来越多。从大数据上可以看到，目前73.6%以上的离婚都是女性提出来的。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">律师说，</span><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">在中国社会，女性越来越独立，她不再依附于男性。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;font-size: 14px;">我有底气提离婚，大不了单独过。</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">婚姻里，部分男性思想上、心理上的成熟度的远低于女性。女性会想：</span><span style="font-size: 14px;"><em><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;">「我嫁一个人是为什么？我管孩子的同时还要管老公。」</span></em></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><em><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;"><br/></span></em></span></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.8314814814814815" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113649la2rk2sznojanvao.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">有时，我们开玩笑，「我头胎是儿子，二胎是儿子他</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">爹」</span><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">。这一句自黑的调侃里，蕴藏了多少无奈。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>很多女性在生完孩子后，都会以惊人的速度变得强大。</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;background-color: #FFFFFF;">她们不仅能</span>迅速适应作为一名母亲的角色，还能够在事业上更努力，获得进步。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">我有一个朋友，生孩子后活的愈发努力，但有一次却忍不住跟我说，<span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;background-color: #FFFFFF;">「</span>有老公还不如没老公，整天添堵」。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">早晨她起来做饭的时候，他睡觉；</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">晚上她陪孩子看绘本、哄睡的时候，他看电视；</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">而最令她难以忍受的是，他换下的内衣、袜子还得要她来洗……</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">朋友说，她真的觉得心很累。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p><img class="" data-backh="225" data-backw="400" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5625" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113649zbqjpd4jdvd4dr5p.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="400" style="width: 534px;"/></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">现代女性越来越独立进取，而她的老公却原地踏步，甚至成为「巨婴」。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">当<strong>「丧偶式育儿」</strong>成为家庭的常态，我们不禁要问，「凭什么我们要继续承受这种折磨？」</span></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">于是，离婚自然成了我们的选择，为了独立，更为了止损。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></strong></p><p><img class="" data-backh="240" data-backw="425" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5647058823529412" 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2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="" style="margin-right: 2px;width: 1.2em;height: 1.2em;line-height: 1.2em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">2</p></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;">「房子归你，孩子归我」</span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">访谈中有句话，让我非常心痛：</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">离婚时男性和女性最大的差异是，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">有的男性最想要的是公司股权，而女性想要的是孩子的抚养权。</strong></span></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.7685185185185185" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113649ciiiqdirixiipxpz.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">易律师说起自己曾做过的一个案例：</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;">男方不仅争夺到了房子，还争夺到了孩子的抚养权。可他并不满足，他继续上诉，而理由仅为了最后的一辆车。</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">在离婚的那一刻，他只想榨干对方的每一分财产。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>他永远体会不到，孩子对一个母亲意味着什么。</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px;margin-bottom: 15px;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.41333333333333333" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113650a6zv242cg56qv3v7.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="600" style=""/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">在微博看到一个案例，妻子起诉离婚后，丈夫抢夺孩子并要求完全占有5岁儿子的压岁钱。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">那一刻，他变成了一个陌生人：</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">怀孕时，妻子全身浮肿到无法走路，和他有什么关系？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">生产时，妻子阵痛超过12个小时因脐带脱垂又转为剖腹，他也不能感同身受。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">当孩子夜里生病时，妻子焦急的抱着孩子去医院，他正在外应酬毫不知情。</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">所以，他秉承着利益面前无颜面的风格，把孩子看作离婚时筹码：认为抢夺孩子，就等于获得更多的利益。</span></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="1.1573816155988859" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113650povss2vz62hsjocc.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="718" style="white-space: normal;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">你最终发现，让人痛苦和绝望的不是离婚本身，而是在离婚的时刻，看见了曾经最爱的人最丑陋的一面。</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 22px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="margin-right: 2px;width: 0.3em;height: 0.3em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section><section style="margin: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="" style="margin-right: 2px;width: 1.2em;height: 1.2em;line-height: 1.2em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">3</p></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;">「伤孩子最深的，并不是离婚」</span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">媒体总倾向于报道离婚带给孩子的伤害，所以我们潜意识中认为，离婚是对孩子的不负责任。如果一个家庭离婚了，那么这个孩子就会得不到完整的爱。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">于是很多在解体边缘的家庭，会「为了孩子」进行艰难的维系。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">但孩子什么都懂，他非常明白父母已经变成「敌人」，不再相爱。</span></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>事实上，伤孩子最深的，不是离婚，而是父母整日不眠不休的打架、争吵、冷战和互相疏离…… </strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5648148148148148" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651ggtchlnll5znplfu.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="540"/></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">知乎网友@婷婷回忆，13岁时父母的离婚，对她来说，是种<strong>「解脱」</strong>。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">他们经常吵架，我不能有一点顾此失彼，不然遭殃的就是我。尤其是过年，那简直就是我的世界末日。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">有人问我，难道我就不羡慕一家人团团圆圆一起过年吗？我想说，<strong>没有吃过巧克力的人，永远不知道它有多好吃，也不会想它。</strong></span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">我们不鼓励离婚，但是，当一段婚姻已经支离破碎，离婚反而是对孩子最好的选择。</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">王菲和李亚鹏和平分手，他们离婚后依然互相祝福，而李亚鹏也依然会经常陪伴孩子。她们的女儿生活的快乐又自信，丝毫未曾缺乏父爱。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.8196153846153846" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113650m79kydkkwpzuft26.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="2600"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">我有一个朋友，曾是全职妈妈，她不堪忍受整日争吵的婚姻，选择了离婚。</span><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">之后，她学习新技能，还找到了新工作，逆袭的人生丝毫不输《我的前半生》中的大女主。而孩子，也不用再害怕父母吵架，反而越来越阳光。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">有一天，她的孩子对她说，</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;">妈妈，我只希望你生活的幸福。你幸福，我才能幸福。</span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">她泪如雨下。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5607843137254902" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651frdbh5zlag06riwg.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="510"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">在《奇葩说》中，张泉灵曾提及，</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">香港曾发布过一份有关离婚的数据调查，其中采样了7000个家庭。最终结果表明：<strong>单亲家庭并不会造成孩子在学习、行为习惯等方面的障碍</strong>。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">相比家庭有矛盾的孩子，他们反而显得幸福的多。</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></span></p><p><img class="" data-backh="276" data-backw="380" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.7263157894736842" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113650fm8ddaylkelzeyfk.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="380" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 22px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="margin-right: 2px;width: 0.3em;height: 0.3em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section><section style="margin: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="" style="margin-right: 2px;width: 1.2em;height: 1.2em;line-height: 1.2em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">4</p></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #5E8234;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;">「婚姻里的孤独感」</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">视频中提到：<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">上班时间越长的，夫妻越容易离婚</strong>。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">因为随着生活节奏的加快，每个人就像上了发条一样，忙着工作。家就像一个旅馆一样，缺少了沟通。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>大多数的离婚原因，并不是我们以为的家暴、出轨，反而是那些看似不起眼的小事。</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">而「婚姻里的孤独感」，正是压死婚姻的最后一根稻草。</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 20px;"><img class="" data-backh="451" data-backw="534" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.845" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651dgiyiftkxqigxqkz.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="1000" style="width: 534px;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">前年，上海举行了一次不加班的抗议活动，40个孤独的女性，高举着牌子向丈夫控诉：</span></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p><img class="" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/aQ4icLkjZVIicuP6sct1t3mpecnXW49Mw6KNbhfiaJPmSRe3Ymkjj6icTcyvjOxFVuBtickQS3umae37elqTTBO5e5g/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="950" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="592.4157303370786" data-ratio="0.6242105263157894" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113650hdql4vbfv4j4jj46.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="950" style="height: 333px;width: 534px;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">她们穿着单薄的睡衣，就像在家里等着丈夫回归一样。牌子上写的都是她们的心里话，一字一句里，包含着多少无奈和心酸。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">知乎上，有一位网友说，</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">我女儿刚出生时，母乳喂养，还在月子里，没钱请保姆。我一个人带着十来天的女儿，侧切伤口发炎加上乳腺炎，半夜疼得厉害。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">于是我摇醒了他，想让他帮忙给孩子换个尿布。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">结果，只听他背过去冷冷地说，<strong>「别的女人都能生，换个尿布都干不了，就你最矫情！」</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">一次一次的不被理解，我彻底寒了心。</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;">出了月子，我就选择了离婚。</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>其实，女人的心就是这样一点一点变冷的。</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><img class="" data-backh="209" data-backw="500" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.418" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651sw21v65wf5kyy10f.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="500" style="width: 534px;"/></strong><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><br/></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">有多少男人认为，我一不赌博，二不出轨，还辛苦的工作挣钱，简直就是极品好男人。女人怎么会如此难以满足？</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">他们不懂，对于女人来说，孤独之后，心如死灰，离婚便成了最无奈的选择。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 22px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="margin-right: 2px;width: 0.3em;height: 0.3em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section><section style="margin: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="" style="margin-right: 2px;width: 1.2em;height: 1.2em;line-height: 1.2em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">5</p></span><span style="margin-left: 2px;width: 0.6em;height: 0.6em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;background-color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #5E8234;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;">「一生一世一辈子」</span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">原以为接手过这么多的离婚，这位律师对婚姻的态度会很消极。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">没想到，她却坚定的说，「一定要结婚呀」。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="" data-backh="272" data-backw="534" data-ratio="0.5094604064470918" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651s6446dgrfgb4grzg.jpg" data-type="png" data-w="1427" style="width: 534px;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">虽然她常常会建议他人要签婚内财产协议，但她自己却没有签。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">因为她内心，依然坚信婚姻一定是幸福的，依然会和大家一样，把对感情的信任摆在第一位。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>她坦言，婚姻中最美好的部分，就在于，当你希望有人陪伴的时候，他愿意在你身边陪伴你。</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">在韩国纪录片《亲爱的，不要跨过那条江》中，98岁的爷爷和89岁的奶奶，用一生给了彼此最温暖的陪伴。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.667" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651nzu72wuh2mthj6ds.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1000"/></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><blockquote><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;">冬天的夜里，奶奶要上厕所。厕所在室外，爷爷即使有点咳嗽，也会一直陪着奶奶，不会走开。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;">爷爷想吃奶奶做的小菜，即使她正在感冒，依然会去河边洗菜来做，她说：「你喜欢吃，我就给你做。」</span></p></blockquote><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">春天，他们身穿情侣服打扮精致，一起去踏青；夏天，他们在院子里像孩子似的打水仗；秋天，他们一起清扫落叶；冬天，他们一起堆雪人。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p><img class="" data-backh="200" data-backw="356" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5617977528089888" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113652ukq3gk2a0fyek1f1.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="356" style="width: 534px;"/></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">爷爷说，自从他们相爱，他就再也没觉得孤单。而奶奶说，爷爷总是像呵护小孩一样爱护着她。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">结婚76年，他们却甜蜜如初恋。</span></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">纪录片最后，爷爷的身体越来越差。奶奶承担起照顾爷爷的责任，她为爷爷喂饭、洗澡、穿衣......</span><span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">直至爷爷生命的最后一刻。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5033557046979866" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113651t8tnktetnstzss62.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="596"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">对于很多女人来说，最想要的从来都不是要挣多少钱。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">她愿意远离父母亲人，只为和你一起生儿育女；</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">她愿意在你生病的时候，时刻的照顾着你，为你浸染生活的柴米油盐；</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">她愿意和你一起，勇敢面对生活的兵荒马乱，收拾一地鸡毛；</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;background-color: #FFFFFF;">她愿意用整颗真心来待你<span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;background-color: #FFFFFF;">......</span></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></strong></p><p style="white-space: normal;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">只要你是那个愿意疼她暖她体谅她的男人。</span></strong></span></strong></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p><img class="" data-backh="203" data-backw="450" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.45111111111111113" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113652n2yy2pbygfkvf7yg.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="450" style="width: 534px;"/></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">婚姻的开始，它一定是美好而幸福的。只有在婚姻的过程中，双方不断的伤害它，它才会走向瓦解。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>对于女人来说，离婚从来不是目的，你无法想象，她有多想和你白头偕老。</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;">若时间倒退回，你是否还会记得，在<span style="color: #595959;font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;background-color: #FFFFFF;">结婚登记的时，</span>曾经对她许下的诺言：</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #7A4442;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;text-align: justify;color: #AF3434;"><strong>「我想陪着你，一生一世一辈子！」</strong></span></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #595959;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></span></strong></p><p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5583333333333333" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113653rkp5ttfzpsy5pfup.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080"/></p></section></section></section></section> 百分之九十的女人为家庭付出更多，为孩子付出更无私
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