致婆婆：你连一口鸡汤都不给我喝，凭什么让我孝顺你？
<p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.422" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113357jmwe07aeqsss767a.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="500"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: inherit;font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);height: 25px;width: 50px;float: left;border-top: 2px solid rgb(117, 117, 118);border-right-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);border-bottom-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);border-left: 2px solid rgb(117, 117, 118);word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" data-style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; word-break: break-all; word-wrap: break-word; text-align: justify;" style="margin: -0.8em 0.3em;padding: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 23.2727px;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: #888888;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;"><strong>你和婆婆，相处融洽吗？</strong></span></p></section><section style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 28.4444px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;color: inherit;widows: 1;height: 25px;width: 50px;float: right;border-bottom: 2px solid rgb(117, 117, 118);border-top-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);border-right: 2px solid rgb(117, 117, 118);border-left-color: rgb(117, 117, 118);margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 25.6px;font-size: 15px;color: #000000;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">最近公司新来了位同事徐姐，她结婚7年了，现在有个5岁的孩子。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">早上大家一起开选题会的时候，说到婆媳关系，她忍不住清了清嗓，开始向我们大吐苦水，整整一个多小时，徐姐的嘴巴都没有停过...</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一场严肃的日常会议，活生生被徐姐演成了一出“婆婆吐槽记”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">虽说婆媳问题，自古是千年难解，但徐姐的遭遇，还是让我们大开了眼界...</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.1421875" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113356u39j5t9zf51ttu1f.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">徐姐的婆婆是个很节俭的人，早在她年轻的时候，就是能省则省，吃不敢吃好的，穿也不舍得穿贵的。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">徐姐嫁过来之后，每次买护肤品，都免不了要被婆婆训斥几句：买什么化妆品，我年轻的时候就从来没用过！几个破瓶瓶罐罐就好几百块钱，太浪费了！</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">被婆婆说了几次后，徐姐也懒得和她争辩，从那以后再买化妆品，就悄悄的藏起来，免得又惹出一场是非。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">对儿媳妇这样也就算了，关键是对孙子，她也是这个脾性。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.6350093109869647" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113357f0h3pp2bhppzhp4r.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="537" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">徐姐的收入还算不错，平常会给孩子买一些贵点的玩具，但婆婆每次见到，都会大发脾气：买那么贵的东西干什么！他爸小时候就没玩过这种玩具，现在不也好好的！小孩子没那么娇气，用不着买这么好的东西！</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">嘴上说说也就罢了，<strong>她还经常捡别人家扔掉的玩具拿回来给儿子玩</strong>，玩具的零件被拆的七零八落的，到处都是划破的痕迹，徐姐嫌弃它不卫生，还被婆婆怼活的真矫情！</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">总之，生活里点点滴滴的小事，婆婆总能找到理由呵斥徐姐：洗衣服放太多水要被骂，袜子放晚一天洗要被骂，多买一件首饰也要被骂...</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.1421875" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113356o4prumggp15rogpr.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">平日里，婆婆也总对徐姐教育儿子的方式指手画脚：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">儿子作业没写完被老师留校，徐姐忍不住批评了几句，却被婆婆指责说你喊什么喊！孩子不爱写作业就不写！你说他干什么！</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">徐姐想给孩子报好一点的补习班，婆婆又嚷嚷着说瞎花钱，学了一点用都没有！</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">徐姐想趁假期带孩子出去旅行见见世面，却被婆婆阻止：有那钱，还不如给你老公买几套衣服！</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">本来，徐姐努力工作赚钱就是想给儿子提供更好的教育资源，但由于婆婆的插手，她总是心有余而力不足，不知该如何是好...</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;">家长必读讲堂田先老师说过：孩子的教育，家长应该占有绝对的主导权。对于长辈的意见，应该采取其合理之处，而对于不合理的做法，必须要坚持自己的原则，绝不让步。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><mp-miniprogram class="miniprogram_element" data-miniprogram-appid="wxc1436b3c0382f4d8" data-miniprogram-path="page/home/columnist/columnist?id=p_59c4be3ca7498_F9G8J0qc" data-miniprogram-nickname="家长必读讲堂+" data-miniprogram-avatar="https://mmbiz.qlogo.cn/mmbiz_png/ibQ3rmVYFkRhM7udlggXdTialj1aQQ2ibQjk4FVhUruIDDWhu5218rIYXNk4MkEgBdBP8CgfYdCznNc9s7GkXCRMw/0?wx_fmt=png" data-miniprogram-title=" " data-miniprogram-imageurl="https://mmbiz.qlogo.cn/mmbiz_jpg/1cbQnkvnl9eelyWibVyj9Z4cncAXMTBcgBKBRqed4pYwibz5IKuk7GqMXiczwUTzy3lMVdAe0EiasiaflEACRqeibKxQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg"></mp-miniprogram></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">为了拉近和婆婆的关系，徐姐做了很多努力，她会给婆婆买护肤品，会逢年过节给婆婆买新衣服，<strong>但这一切婆婆似乎都不领情，还总在背后跟别人说：别看她给我买这些东西，还不知道给她亲妈买多少好东西呢！</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">徐姐每每听说，都觉得自己的心意白费了，心瞬间凉了一大截。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.1421875" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113357yn7l60879ny777t8.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">然而最让徐姐寒心的，还是那一次...<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">那天中午下班，徐姐准备回家吃饭，刚到家门口拿出钥匙准备开门，就听见门里传来婆婆说话的声音...</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“不行，这老母鸡是我从早上就开始炖的！<strong>专门给我儿子准备的，怎么能给儿媳妇吃去了！“</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“等晚上我儿子回来了，我再端出来”</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">”中午不还有点剩菜，一会她回来有的吃就行了“</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这几句话像刀子一样刺在了徐姐的心里，徐姐这才明白，<strong>不管她付出多少努力，献上多少殷勤，就算把心窝子掏出来给婆婆看，婆婆也始终把她当外人。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">那天中午，徐姐始终没有打开门，默默的走了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.666" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113357hfifwmk5fvdkz2n1.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻里，这桩桩件件不起眼的小事，却让徐姐陷入了自我折磨的漩涡里...</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">会议上，徐姐越说越悲愤，拍着桌子含着眼泪告诫着一票未婚小姑娘：结婚就是个陷阱，千万别往火坑里跳啊！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.1421875" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113357mwo13ynxo3axo3wo.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婆媳矛盾，从来都是世纪难题。因为这个，闹到大打出手家庭破碎的比比皆是。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但，婆媳和谐家庭幸福的例子也并不少见。总结这些经验来看，想要婆媳关系融洽，就要做到以下两点：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1、不要住在一起。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">俗话说：距离产生美。这句话其实很有道理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">调查发现，只要婆媳不住在一起，90%的婆媳矛盾都可以避免。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婆婆和儿媳妇本就是两个时代的人，不论是生活习惯还是处事方式都大相径庭，如果非要硬凑在一个环境下生活，总是免不了鸡毛蒜皮的矛盾冲突。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">而如果不住在一起，只是保持着固定频率的回家探望，发生矛盾的几率也就会小很多。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我的一个朋友就是典型的例子。刚结婚的时候，她住进了婆婆家，整天争吵不断，甚至屡屡想要离婚。但自从搬出来住以后，她和婆婆的关系就缓和了不少，基本没什么架可吵，两个人也互相看的顺眼了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，哪怕只有百分之一的机会，只要能够分开住，就不要硬凑在一个屋檐下，互相撕扯和折磨。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.6666666666666666" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/19/113357olf2p4p4opz4214b.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="450" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2、别把婆婆当亲妈。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">其实说白了，婆婆和儿媳妇之间根本没有血缘关系，两个人只是因为一场婚姻而被凑在了一起。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以不管关系再亲密，婆婆也永远不可能成为你的亲妈，你也永远不可能成为她的亲女儿。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">与其别别扭扭小心翼翼的把婆婆当亲妈来看待，还不如保持最基本的尊重。<strong>把婆婆当做最亲近的长辈来对待，该尽的孝道要尽，该遵守的礼节也要遵守。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">相应的，该坚持的原则也要坚持。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">认识一个很酷的作者，她和婆婆的关系就是”你敬我一尺，我予你十丈；你欺我一分，我便压你三分“。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她不会做饭，在家里，她和老公的分工很明确，老公负责做饭，她负责其他的家务，两个人其乐融融。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;letter-spacing: 1px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但婆婆就逮着这个点不放，指责她作为一个女人连饭都不会做！一点当媳妇的自觉都没有！</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她头也不抬，直接甩了一句：<strong>你儿子愿意给我做，你管得着吗？</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婆婆立马哑口无言，之后也没再说过她了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻毕竟是两个人的事，婆婆再亲也只是长辈，<strong>她可以为夫妻二人的婚姻生活提供建议，但绝不能帮你们做决定。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">只有划分清楚界限，才能保证婚姻的独立和平静。</span></p> 奇葩老婆婆多的是
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