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复旦教授：不打不骂不罚是培养不出优秀孩子的！值得一看

<p><img class="" data-ratio="0.6671732522796353" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/17/112125n9svx6non3913ozo.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="658" style="text-align: center; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"/><br/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="84261" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin: 5px auto;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;height: 25px;color: inherit;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;height: 25px;width: 50px;float: left;border-top: 2px solid rgb(172, 29, 16);border-right-color: rgb(172, 29, 16);border-bottom-color: rgb(172, 29, 16);border-left: 2px solid rgb(172, 29, 16);color: inherit;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;color: rgb(172, 29, 16);clear: both;border-color: rgb(172, 29, 16);word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><section class="" data-style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; word-break: break-all; word-wrap: break-word; text-align: justify;" style="margin: -0.8em 0.3em;padding: 0.8em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;color: inherit;"><p style="max-width: 100%;word-wrap: break-word;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-size: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;word-break: break-all;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">对于孩子的教育，必须有惩戒，甚至是严厉的惩戒，尤其是面对独生子女的一代。</span></p></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;height: 25px;color: inherit;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;height: 25px;width: 50px;float: right;border-bottom: 2px solid rgb(172, 29, 16);border-top-color: rgb(172, 29, 16);border-right: 2px solid rgb(172, 29, 16);border-left-color: rgb(172, 29, 16);color: inherit;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">今天要跟大家分享的是复旦大学钱文忠教授在“第三界新东方家庭教育高峰论坛”上的演讲。</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">面对动辄就强调快乐教育，体罚被教育禁绝的中国，复旦大学钱文忠教授的这番演讲，有着重要的启示意义。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">对于一个孩子的教育，必须有惩戒，甚至是严厉的惩戒，尤其是面对独生子女的一代。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多所谓的素质教育、快乐学习完全是被误导的口号，希望这些能警醒一些家长和老师。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">以下为钱教授演讲全文：</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">各位尊敬的校长、老师：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">非常高兴来到本次论坛。本来，我的演讲题目是俞敏洪校长规定的，但是，听了四中校长和郑州外国语学校校长的发言之后，我想临时改改。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我打算以一个学生、一个家长、一个老师的身份，来谈一谈我对教育的看法。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.5989583333333334" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/17/112125fwj1wehemm0mnmrr.jpg" data-type="png" data-w="576" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" width="auto"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: #A30911;color: #FFFFFF;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;01&nbsp;</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">中国教育正面临着</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">前所未有的问题</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">今天我们对中国教育所有的看法也许都起源于一种错误，我们没有认真思考到底什么是教育。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们在不断地让步，为自己找理由，为孩子们开脱。我想说，教育不是这样，也不应该是这样。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">中国正面临着很多人类历史上从来没有面临过的问题，比如独生子女。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">独生子女是自地球上有人类这个物种以来所出现的一个从来没有过的“亚种”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在人类历史上，从来没有那么多没有兄弟姐妹的人在那么短的时间内，有计划地出现在一个国家。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">请别忘记了，我们所有的教育理念、教育方法、教育手段都是针对有兄弟姐妹的孩子。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">今天，我们的教育者在拼命反思，但是别忘了，接受教育的对象的主体已经是人类历史上从来没有出现过的“亚种”了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们没有办法，不知道怎么教育这些孩子。<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">千万不要以为他们和我们是一样的，他们和我们不一样，甚至可能完全不一样。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们今天讲快乐教育，讲我们的童年很快乐。可是，我们的童年快乐吗？至少我一点都不快乐。回忆一般都是虚幻的、快乐的，“好了伤疤忘了疼”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在座的我们，只要上过大学的，谁不是一路考试拼上来的？我们小时候也有不少作业，我们小时候还吃不饱饭，有时候还被老师揍两下、骂两句。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">凭什么教育是快乐的？我实在想不通，教育怎么一定是快乐的？恐怕被国外教育搞晕了吧！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育里面一定有痛苦的成分，这是不言而喻的。我们凭什么对注定将要接替我们的子孙让步，我想不明白。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.6764705882352942" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/17/112126t02aa6lza40m223c.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="510" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: #A30911;color: #FFFFFF;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;02&nbsp;</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育可以没有惩戒手段吗？</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">现在，我们对孩子的教育大多是鼓励，没有错。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">那么，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">惩戒呢？教育可以没有惩戒手段吗？单凭鼓励就可以完成教育了？我不相信。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">现在的孩子骂不得、说不得、批评不得，一点挫折就接受不了！</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">小时候，我的老师惩戒过我，但我们的感情到今天都很好。现在对孩子一味表扬，恐怕还要看家长是什么样的人吧。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">那惩戒呢？我是在欧洲留学的，我们常讲欧洲的教育怎么怎么好。好啊，大家看看英国的好学校规矩严到什么地步。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">英国议院通过了一条法规，大意是<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“允许教师在历经劝告无效的情况下，采取包括身体接触在内的必要手段，迫使不遵守纪律的学生遵守纪律”。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">说白了，就是可以适当地揍。大家都说新加坡的教育好，新加坡的中小学教室后面墙上，不是经常悬着一把戒尺？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">据说，孩子表现不好，按规定打三下，只许打手心，不许打手背，必须两个老师在场的时候才允许执行。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是如果说过去的教育都不对，那俞敏洪校长是怎么培养出来的？徐小平、王强是怎么培养出来的？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们不是过去的教育教出来的吗？我们是随地吐痰了，还是耍流氓了？我们什么都没干，挺好。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我觉得教育不能再一味地让步，我们对孩子要真的负责任。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要迎合社会上一些似是而非的说法，什么素质教育、什么快乐教育、什么应试教育。应试是最基本的素质。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.664" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/17/112126nqgd80lc0lccx2mc.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: #A30911;color: #FFFFFF;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;03&nbsp;</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">应试制度真的不公平吗？</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人类社会没有绝对的公平！中国不公平，美国同样不公平！现在几乎可以说唯一的一条相对公平线就是高考了。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果说按照所谓的素质来招生，那么，中国的平民子弟有多少能进北大、清华？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一个孩子连公平竞争都竞争不过人家，还说素质很高，谁会相信? 所以，不要迎合社会上有些所谓的专家的话。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我现在提倡恢复全国统一高考，而且是裸考，不要加分。王强是内蒙古高考的第二名，我是那年高考的上海第二名，我们都是这么考到北大的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果高考制度不能改，我们的教育就不能改，高考是指挥棒啊！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">高考制度之所以不能改，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">是因为我们找不到比高考制度更不坏的制度。高考制度不是最好的制度，但它是最不坏的制度。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">问题是，我们面临的矛盾我们必须自己心里清楚。有人问我：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“钱老师，您这几年电视上讲国学，讲《三字经》《弟子规》，您觉得推广《三字经》《弟子规》的最大难处在哪里?”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我一般的说法是希望有关部门大力推广，进入学校。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">其实这不是最大的困难，最大的困难是：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果按照《三字经》《弟子规》，按照出席今天论坛的名校的标准培养孩子，那么，这些孩子到社会上90%要吃亏。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你把按照《弟子规》那样忠诚、守信、孝悌、守规矩的孩子放到社会上看看，很可能就吃亏！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这说明，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们的社会出了大问题。谁能否认?我们要讲传统优秀文化的最根本的理由正在于此。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我自己也在一线教书，跟学生有接触，我想告诉大家，对于中国的教育，我们要有一种极度的忧患意识。我赞成对孩子真的要严格。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子毕竟不是成年人，孩子还必须管教、必须惩戒，必须让他知道教育绝不仅仅是快乐的，学习绝不仅仅是快乐的！</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果一个人能够在学习中感到快乐，那就很可能成为大师级人物！绝大多数人是不会的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">绝大多数孩子是不得不学，是为了某种目的或知道学习对其一生的重要性不得不去学的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="1.080188679245283" data-s="300,640" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/17/112126jbbbpi88eid7ulld.jpg" data-type="png" data-w="424" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: #A30911;color: #FFFFFF;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;04&nbsp;</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">现在的孩子，犯错成本太低</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们要告诉孩子，犯了错误要付出代价。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果在全社会形成家长对孩子让步的氛围，以后的孩子是很可怕的，我们的未来是很可怕的，这样教育出来的孩子是接不住中国未来发展的重担的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">现在，孩子进一步，社会让一步；孩子进一步，老师让一步；孩子进一步，家长让一步。家长心疼孩子，老师也心疼孩子，就是独生子女闹的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的教育怎么行？更何况，现在的教育面临着巨大的冲突，根本就不能按照一般的教育学理论思考。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我父亲受过很好的教育，但他就看不得儿子教育孙子。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">有一次，我教训孩子，我父亲在旁边就有些不愉快。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我儿子说：“爸爸，你为什么用这种口气跟我说话？”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我说：“因为你错了。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他说：“错了也不能用这样的口气跟我说话。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我说：“《三字经》没读过？”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他说：“你不就是想说 ‘养不教，父之过’吗?”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我说：“是啊。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他说：“你前两天不还讲《弟子规》的吗?《弟子规》里说‘守孝悌，次谨信’，你都不让你老爸高兴，凭什么我让我老爸高兴？”</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这件事就说明，我们的传统教育在今天已经全然崩塌，我们正面临着根本的冲突。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">作为家长，我倒是希望如果我儿子的老师看他不成器，揍他两下，罚站一会儿，这是应该的。教育部就应该定出这样的规则，对学生要有惩戒。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们现在都说鼓励孩子的自信心，赞扬他，鼓励他有自信，这是对的，但是不能过度。在这种教育下的孩子将来到社会，他面临的反差足以把他摧毁。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们应该告诉孩子，这个社会是残酷的、不公平的，要准备受到很多委屈，早受到委屈，早得到锻炼。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果校长、老师惩戒确实犯了错的我的孩子，甚至揍他几下，我会感谢老师。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我相信，大多数老师是有大爱的。我希望老师一手拿着胡萝卜，一手还得拿着大棒。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">再不要简单地说快乐教育、素质教育、快乐学习、成功教育，都成功还了得？我看教育孩子做一个快乐的普通人挺好！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.6235294117647059" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/17/112126kkzpwgxvf9kdgcp1.jpg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="510" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: #A30911;color: #FFFFFF;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;05&nbsp;</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育，不能一味地对孩子让步</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我觉得，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育是最真实的事情，老师不应该去揣摩家长、孩子的心思，不停地对孩子让步、对家长让步。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子考不考名牌大学无所谓，我只希望他生理健康、心理健康，好好过完一辈子。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">更何况，人类到底有多少年谁都不知道。霍金说还有200年，如果真的是这样，我会跟我的孙子说不要生孩子了。这是一句笑话吗?</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们现在要让孩子尽量生理健康、心理健康，我们把未来的选择权放开给他，因为我们对孩子负不起责任。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不像我们小时候，生活很困难、社会不发达、经济也不发达，但是我们的父母还能对我们负责任。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我觉得我现在非常羡慕我父母，他们敢骂孩子、揍孩子，但是我们依然爱他们。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">今天的孩子打不得、骂不得，哪怕是一个眼神，没准明天就能把长辈杀了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">老师也不敢批评学生，学生在校更不能受伤，老师害怕家长找上门来没完没了、纠缠不休。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我讲《弟子规》讲到“守孝悌”时，让我的助手搜索一年以内的“不孝、杀父”的反面例子，然后打印出来，以备我选用反面例子。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不一会儿，助手告诉我：“打印纸没有了！”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们对孩子没有一些控制、抑制、约束，一味以爱的名义对他们让步，这样的教育是不对的。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">也许这个想法很突兀，应该想办法“如何让孩子学习更成功”，但我内心“不相信”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以我选择把我的真实想法跟各位校长、老师汇报。如果我们再不把一些虚幻的东西弄清楚，我们都要完蛋的！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育，特别是基础教育，恐怕未必应该全然简单地随着社会的发展而发展。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是一个大问题，我们简单地认为，教育就应该跟着社会发展而发展。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在某种程度上，教育是应该跟社会“对着唱的”。是社会在“教育”教育，还是教育在“教育”社会？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我认为应该是教育在“教育”社会。现在是社会在“教育”教育，这样教育的本体性就不存在了，教育最基本的价值理念就不存在了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们这个民族原来给教育赋予那么高的地位和价值，在今天都已经完全被打乱了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #7B0C00;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们这个社会最后一道防线就是教育。我们不要轻易向社会让步，我们也不要轻易向我们的孩子让步，也不要轻易向家长让步。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们这个社会要赋予校长、老师更大的权利、更高的荣誉、更好的待遇，但是也应该赋予他们更大的责任。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是我的真心话，有不对的地方，请各位校长首先把我当成一个学生，其次把我当成一个家长，最后把我当一个晚辈老师，给予批评教育。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我刚才讲的没有一句假话，全是真话。当然，季羡林先生教过我<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“假话全不说，真话不全说。”</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span 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