聪明家长绝不会让孩子触碰这3个底线
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="281" data-backw="498" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.565" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162449sh09o74rh2jz0j74.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="400" style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 364.425px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" width="100%"/></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="91525" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section><section><p style="line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #888888;">在爱中教会孩子底线，</span></p><p style="line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: #888888;">才是我们所能给予孩子们将来最宝贵财富。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class=""><section class=""><p><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 20px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">父</span>母就像子宫，即约束孩子又保护孩子。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;">可真正聪明的父母，都会懂得：再爱孩子，也不能逾越这三个底线。 </p><p style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86144" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0px;" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)"><section style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 21.6px;"><section style="display: inline-block;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;"><span style="width: 0.34em;height: 0.34em;margin-right: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"> </span><span style="width: 0.68em;height: 0.68em;margin-left: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"> </span></section><section style="width: 2.5em;text-align: right;margin: auto;line-height: 0;"><span style="width: 1.35em;height: 1.35em;margin-right: 2px;line-height: 1.35em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;background-color: #AC1D10;" class=""><section class="autonum" data-original-title="" title="">1</section></span><span style="width: 0.68em;height: 0.68em;margin-left: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"></span></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: center;"><strong style="color: rgb(189, 21, 5);font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">别人的东西不能拿</strong><br/></p></section></section></section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);line-height: 1.8;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px;">前些日子，老爸竟对着平日里最挂念的外孙奇奇发了脾气。 </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;">奇奇是我的小外甥，今年7岁了，一年才跟着妈妈回来一次。 </p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他看见我的一本动漫贴纸集合很是兴奋，扑上来就叫嚷着：<span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「我也要我也要。」</span> </p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="153" data-backw="257" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5953307392996109" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162450gavwhl6gmhl6ye6v.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="257" style="width: 646px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="100%"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我赶忙把本子护在怀里。可他哪能乐意，又哭又闹的跟我抢。我只得屈服，<span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「好好，我给你看，但是一张都不能拿下来。」 </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">终于看过一遍，我赶紧拿回卧室，放进抽屉。 </p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这事儿貌似也就这么过去了。 </p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="301" data-backw="534" data-ratio="0.5625" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" height="439" title="点击查看源网页" width="780.44444444444" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162449qnb0x8ncxcf0twuz.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;top: 88px;left: 0px;cursor: pointer;height: 362.813px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">第二天我和同学看完电影回家，翻开本子，就发现少了两张贴纸。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我着急的和奇奇争执起来：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「奇奇，你是不是偷偷翻小姨的本子了？」 </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「我才没有呢。」</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「你肯定翻了，还偷了我的贴纸。快给我。」</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「就不，我就不！」</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我气急了，就开始翻奇奇的书本。奇奇更是大怒，和我推闹哭喊起来。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="283" data-backw="511" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/aQ4icLkjZVI8XibHlCqW98fuV68REyZLJ78Hg0RYnVhTe5zt6MJbPz7ibb1mFnyKYSKeTDdE5gyboXMeljWe1dMqw/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="511" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="284" data-ratio="0.5538160469667319" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="511" width="100%" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162448iizvrzaq2u22qwc9.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 357.211px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这时，大姐和老爸听到吵闹赶忙过来。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">老爸那么喜欢奇奇，我一点都没指望他能站在我这边。于是，我做好了与所有人大吵一架的准备。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">搞清楚事情后，老爸很生气。有点意外的是，老爸对奇奇发了脾气。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「奇奇，把东西还给小姨。」</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「就不给，我想要我想要。」</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一听外公也让他还，奇奇瞬间就打起滚来。可老爸丝毫没有让步：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「如果我不经过你同意，就把你最喜欢的托马斯小火车拿走藏起来，你会不会也很难过？」</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">奇奇看了看自己的小火车，又看了看外公。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「你要记住，随便动别人东西，是不尊重别人的行为。不仅你不能，妈妈不能，外公也不能。」</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="167" data-backw="299" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5585284280936454" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162449cxipzla34hql0xrp.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="299" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 360.251px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" width="100%"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">说罢，老爸和大姐说道：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「这可不是两张贴纸的事，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">从小就应该让孩子明白：不能随便拿别人的东西。这是咱们的底线，也是原则。</strong>」<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「他现在随意拿小姨的东西，你不教育他。等以后上学了，就会随意欺负同学。<span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">」</span></span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">没有原则，没有底线，孩子就容易自私自利，以自我为中心。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #7B0C00;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #B71108;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果不希望孩子以后被打脸，那现在就得能拉得下脸。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="280" data-backw="498" data-ratio="0.562" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162449guej22q0mqe2e0qq.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="500" height="281" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;top: 177px;left: 157px;cursor: pointer;height: 362.49px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" title="点击查看源网页" width="500"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我明白，老爸绝不是大题小作。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子7岁时，自我意识就已经逐渐萌芽，而物权意识还不十分明晰。喜欢的东西，就想拿走，并不明白这样有什么不好。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这条底线，可以帮助孩子更好的区分自己与他人的物权概念，更好的建立自己于他人的界限意识。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #7B0C00;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #B71108;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">而与他人的界限意识，正是孩子学会自我尊重和尊重他人的基础。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86144" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0px;" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)"><section style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 21.6px;"><section style="display: inline-block;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;"><span style="width: 0.34em;height: 0.34em;margin-right: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"> </span><span style="width: 0.68em;height: 0.68em;margin-left: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"> </span></section><section style="width: 2.5em;text-align: right;margin: auto;line-height: 0;"><span style="width: 1.35em;height: 1.35em;margin-right: 2px;line-height: 1.35em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;background-color: #AC1D10;" class=""><section class="autonum" data-original-title="" title="">2</section></span><span style="width: 0.68em;height: 0.68em;margin-left: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"></span></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #BD1505;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">社会规则不能破</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">有人说，调皮是孩子的天性，给孩子自由比较重要。可如果没有社会规则做保障，那孩子的自由将是无稽之谈。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友说起一件事，</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">地铁上，一个小女孩不小心将牛奶打翻了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">母亲什么也没说，只是一张张的递纸让孩子擦干净。擦完后，女孩把脏了的纸卷起来，一直握在手里。直到下了车，才把纸扔进垃圾桶。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友说，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「这样的孩子到哪里都招人喜欢」</strong>。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><attachment data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></attachment></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="323" data-backw="498" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.648" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" width="100%" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162449b1gh2llnnlx5hhnd.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 417.96px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><attachment data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></attachment><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">对于社会规则的遵守，从来都离不开父母的言传身教。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">例如：</p></section></section></section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 522px;border-width: 2px;border-style: dotted;border-color: rgb(192, 200, 209);border-radius: 0.7em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">- 要懂得先来后到的道理，大家排队玩玩具；</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">- 公共场合不能大声喧哗，不要打扰其他人；</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">- 遵守交通规则，不随意闯红灯；</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">- 自觉购买车票，排队上下车；</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">......</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);line-height: 1.8;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;letter-spacing: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;letter-spacing: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上有个被高度关注的话题：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「摧毁一个熊孩子有多难？」</strong>回答中，足见大家对不遵守规则的「熊孩子」</span><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0px;word-wrap: break-word !important;">、</span><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「熊父母」有多深恶痛绝。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0px;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="246" data-backw="498" data-ratio="0.49318181818181817" data-type="jpeg" data-w="440" height="217" title="点击查看源网页" width="440" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162449vi9co30n213cx134.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;top: 159px;left: 187px;cursor: pointer;height: 318.102px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">去年7月，在北京飞往上海的某航班上，一名4岁小女孩，在未购买飞机票的情况下登了机，致使该航班的全体乘客不得不重新安检，飞机延误长达5小时。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">而家长的回应则是：不知道1.2米下的儿童要买飞机票。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">安检有责，但孩子的父母更有责。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">仅因这一句「不知道规则」的逃票，却是耽误了整个航班的进程。很难想这样自私的父母，会怎样和孩子解释这次的事故。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="335" data-backw="498" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qlogo.cn/mmbiz_jpg/aQ4icLkjZVI8XibHlCqW98fuV68REyZLJ7G8IQjonDgdZu1SJrz4kcab5xg4p38JyFZjicGLsCibYzS8wXF12AfIkA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="440" data-cropy1="129.87951807228916" data-cropy2="424.97991967871485" data-ratio="0.6727272727272727" data-type="jpeg" data-w="440" width="100%" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162450stpvth4qog2uhzjq.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 433.909px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #B71108;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">社会规则之所以制定出来，正是为了孩子的安全着想。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">许多娱乐设施为了保障孩子的安全，严格限定了孩子可以游玩的条件。 </p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">迪士尼有个游戏叫做「七个小矮人矿山车」，就严格限定了孩子的身高至少要在97cm以上。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">去年有位女明星带孩子要玩这个游戏，但迪士尼的工作人员以<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「孩子身高不够，不合规则，安全至上」</strong>为理由拒绝其游玩。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #888888;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这位女明星直接带着孩子冲上了车，导致整个矿山关闭，其他的游客只能站在雨中等她。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="294" data-backw="498" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/aQ4icLkjZVI8XibHlCqW98fuV68REyZLJ7775C82B8ubjGGI5XSicib6KID0LcxwwIUzxqcABzQQtjSaia0Y0UvfQPA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="1023.9999999999999" data-cropy1="86.36144578313252" data-cropy2="690.8915662650602" data-ratio="0.58984375" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1024" title="点击查看源网页" width="100%" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162450jy7vztzy4f7uvtfb.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;top: 48px;left: 81px;cursor: pointer;height: 380.449px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">网友直呼：自己不能玩，为什么让大家都跟着受罪？难道公众人物的孩子就可以不遵守规则？</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">或许身高差一两厘米未必会怎么样，但如果恰因为那一厘米的差距，孩子出现了意外，后果由谁来承担呢？</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">漠视安全的规则，受伤的可是孩子啊！</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">父母在不守规则逾越社会底线的时候，旁边可还有一双小眼睛在注视着你，学习着你。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="345" data-backw="534" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/aQ4icLkjZVI8XibHlCqW98fuV68REyZLJ7COgkM46U2JRjyN29SIicwX10ib0Ew7rf6PFV4GgXoe0e1pPklXt8wia3A/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="436" data-cropy1="26.943820224719097" data-cropy2="308.62921348314603" data-ratio="0.6467889908256881" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="436" width="100%" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162450z4h4zxf3yhsuuyzx.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 417.179px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #B71108;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">爱孩子是我们的本能，而让孩子尊重社会规则，是我们最重要的责任。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">若我们不教孩子坚守底线，这个世界又怎会给孩子以保护？</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这条底线，让孩子明白这个世界的界限，</strong>遵守社会和规则，从而才能更好的享受规则带来的便利，也才能更好的与世界相处。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><section class="_135editor" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86144" style="border: 0px none; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0px;" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)"><section style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;text-align: center;font-size: 21.6px;"><section style="display: inline-block;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 4px;margin-left: auto;width: 2.5em;text-align: right;line-height: 0;"><span style="width: 0.34em;height: 0.34em;margin-right: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"> </span><span style="width: 0.68em;height: 0.68em;margin-left: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"> </span></section><section style="width: 2.5em;text-align: right;margin: auto;line-height: 0;"><span style="width: 1.35em;height: 1.35em;margin-right: 2px;line-height: 1.35em;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;color: #FFFFFF;text-align: center;background-color: #AC1D10;" class=""><section class="autonum" data-original-title="" title="">3</section></span><span style="width: 0.68em;height: 0.68em;margin-left: 2px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;color: #FFFFFF;background-color: #AC1D10;"></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);line-height: 1.8;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: #BD1505;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自己的事情自己做</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">和朋友聊天，说起孩子出生前，她从没想过自己会为一个小儿的吃喝拉撒睡耗尽所有精力。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">可孩子出生后，她就母爱泛滥了。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="256" data-backw="498" data-ratio="0.5139186295503212" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162451qmt36sq77m4c6qoq.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="467" height="240" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;top: 197px;left: 173px;cursor: pointer;height: 331.478px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" title="点击查看源网页" width="467"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">看着她柔软又可爱的小身体，听着她温柔的一声声：「妈妈」，这种保护欲就不由自主的从骨子里撺掇起来。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">为她穿衣，洗手，吃饭，整理干干净净的小天地……生怕自己做的不够多，不够细。</p></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 12px;padding-left: 12px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);line-height: 1.8;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="171" data-backw="309" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.5533980582524272" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162451d9g42q2962gxcmc6.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="309" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 356.942px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" width="100%"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当妈的人，竟是操劳惯了。老师说，回去后让孩子自己的事情自己做，她也没太放在心上。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">直到有一次，老师在家长群里刷屏：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">和大家说过很多次，回去之后不要给孩子喂饭，不要给孩子喂饭，为什么还是有家长给孩子喂饭呢？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">之前在幼儿园里已经教会小朋友自己吃饭了，一放假回来又不好好吃了，还说<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「就得妈妈喂」</strong>。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: #888888;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你们舍不得放手，我们也很难教育好孩子呀。</strong></span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她才终于意识到，自己之前包办的太多了。孩子一天天长大，力量也一天天赠强，她完全可以独立做一些事情。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「自己的事情自己做」，这句她从小听到大的教诲，怎么在自己孩子这儿，就忘记了呢？ </p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">想通以后，她和老公达成一致，要教会孩子「自己的事情自己做」。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">再后来，女儿很快就可以自己洗手，吃饭，端碗拿筷子……简直利落的像个小大人。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="184" data-backw="440" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.41818181818181815" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162451clgz4d6484dyylsy.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="440" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 269.727px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" width="100%"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">后来，她一直记着这件事，也一直提醒自己，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要越界。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她不仅是让孩子要自己完成一些事情，还给孩子独立的选择权、决定权，鼓励孩子面对选择勇于承担自己的责任。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">到现在女儿11岁，独立又自信。有天女儿把校报给她，上面发表了一篇女儿的文章《谢谢你，我的妈妈》。里面说：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #000000;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">「是你教会我什么叫做独立，让我学会如何才能坚强。面对困难，我也会向你一样，无所畏惧。谢谢你，我的妈妈。」</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="280" data-backw="498" data-ratio="0.5628415300546448" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162452t9o552k2k35o555g.gif" data-type="gif" data-w="549" height="309" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;top: 113px;left: 132px;cursor: pointer;height: 363.033px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;" title="点击查看源网页" width="549"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她心里百味陈杂。<span style="color: #000000;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们太爱孩子，以至于心甘情愿的付出而不觉辛苦。可是对孩子而言，有时候放手才是真正的爱！</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这条底线，竟是最难的树立的一条底线。<span style="color: #000000;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">它不仅意味着要教会孩子独立、自主和责任意识，更是帮助孩子一点点的具备和父母分离的能力。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;">母爱，终将是一场得体的退出。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-backh="318" data-backw="498" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/aQ4icLkjZVI8XibHlCqW98fuV68REyZLJ7Fe081QSuXwSHE7FuAbNZSEl4fH2yneuKJseLFKFyXW8Zfl0e5XK3hQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="940" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="600.2409638554216" data-ratio="0.6393617021276595" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="940" width="100%" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/14/162451la923yegmyeziavz.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;height: 412.388px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 645px !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">原来我们为孩子树立的所有底线，都是为了孩子未来和我们更好的分离。</strong>帮助他们在我们看不到的地方，平安喜乐。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">父母之爱子，则为之计深远。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #B71108;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在爱中教会孩子底线，才是我们所能给予孩子们将来最宝贵财富。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><section class="" powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 28.8px;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;line-height: normal;word-wrap: break-word !important;text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: #FFFFFF;color: #3E3E3E;font-size: 16px;text-align: center;"><span style="color: #888888;font-size: 14px;text-align: center;background-color: #FFFFFF;">-End-</span></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section>
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