离婚第二天，她把4岁幼子扔下了楼！婚姻再绝望，孩子都不是你的陪葬
<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="background-color: #A30911; color: #FFFFFF; font-family: 微软雅黑; text-align: center;"> 01 </span></p><p><br/></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">你在婚姻里的痛苦，都由孩子买单</span></strong></span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2月24日11时许，武冈市庆丰路某宾馆发生一起故意杀人案。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><iframe class="video_iframe" data-vidtype="2" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" data-ratio="1.7666666666666666" data-w="848" scrolling="no" src="https://v.qq.com/iframe/preview.html?vid=e0560gh6trw&width=500&height=375&auto=0"></iframe></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">年仅4岁的小男孩被亲妈从15米高的四楼推下，脑袋一头撞在阳台的角上。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">而就在前一天，这位可怜小男孩的父母刚办理离婚，6岁的哥哥归妈妈，而4岁的他归爸爸。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">妈妈说舍不得他就这么跟了爸爸，要陪他最后一晚。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">只是一晚过后关于抚养的电话谈判再次破裂。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">爸爸说要来接走小男孩，情绪失控的妈妈不顾小男孩的苦苦哀求，硬生生的把亲生儿子从窗台上推了下去，只因抚养权不再属于她。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">四层楼，15米高，4岁的孩子还柔弱。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">像是上天都看不下去这场闹剧的发生，小男孩先是被室外的电线绊住，再是坠下的地方有装着松软泥土的种菜盒，所以孩子的性命保住了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dyLKECgdXac6WWdS655lTBntsnxr6g1Tfdy8atQUdI2yuEnaBMEfKYnaFoiawJjnicHCwhTdMwZkhNCCHIAVvTNg/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-cropx1="5.806451612903226" data-cropx2="1080" data-cropy1="85.16129032258063" data-cropy2="1290.9677419354837" data-ratio="1.1209302325581396" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1075" width="555px" src="data/attachment/forum/201803/12/151900kf7slv616sssdfri.jpg" style="border: 1px solid rgb(238, 237, 235);height: 733.088px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 654px !important;background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: 50% 50%;background-repeat: no-repeat;"/></p><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们有无想过，遭受家庭破裂的悲痛之后又在鬼门关前走了一遭，这位4岁的孩子如何面对未来成长的路？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">才4岁的他，纯净剔透、天真无邪，对世间的一切都处在懵懂无知的状态， 但他最亲最爱的父母，却肆无忌掸地在他面前互相厮扯、纠缠不休、彼此鄙视、交恶不断。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">发展到最后，竟亲手把自己推下楼，而被推下楼前，他撕心裂肺地求妈妈：“妈妈，不要，不要”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">相信那些彻骨的寒冷和敌意，终将是会瓦解他内心所有安全感，并深深地刻在他的生命里。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">弗兰克·卡德勒说：“生命最不幸的一个事实是，我们所遭遇的第一个重大磨难多来自家庭，并且，这种磨难是可以遗传的。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">童年早期的经历都清晰印刻在大脑中，它没有语言的编码，不能被回忆或意识，但其影响伴随一生。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #FFFFFF;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: #A30911;"> 02 </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当婚姻走到尽头，孩子到底有多伤？</span></strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多家长来信问，如果离婚了，到底会对孩子造成多大影响？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我整理了几条单亲妈妈或单亲爸爸的留言，也许最能说明孩子的伤：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><ul class=" list-paddingleft-2" style="list-style-type: circle;"><li><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我离婚四年了，孩子是给前夫抚养，离婚后我就离开家乡，到别的城市打工，今年六月回去看孩子，发现她不记得我了，前夫说以前三四岁的时候，常会想我，哭着闹着要妈妈，也不想上幼儿园，现在孩子五岁半，她不记得我了。丢掉小孩，心好痛，好痛，可再跟前夫过下去感觉自己在慢性自杀一样！我不想死，所以选择痛。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p></li><li><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我是单亲妈妈，是今年离的婚，我前夫外遇了，我儿子才5岁，我当然要把他抚养权拿到手，儿子是我的命，每当儿子说要爸爸，想爸爸的时候，我都会很生气，会忍不住对儿子发脾气，那样的人，不配做爸爸，为什么还要想爸爸？可能是我吼太多了，儿子现在特别内向胆小，我也很担心，我不知道怎么办才好？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p></li><li><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我是单亲爸爸，孩子从小就我一个人带大，他妈从来不管，也从不来看他，现在17岁了，变得非常叛逆，跟以前完全是两个人，内向了，脾气暴躁了，我说什么都不听，交代的事根本不去完成，我要工作，没多余时间陪伴，不知道要怎么做才可以让孩子不至于毁了？</span></p></li></ul><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">以上留言，叙述的内容各有不同，但却都有共通的地方，总结以下两点：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 孩子缺了父或母的爱。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 孩子承受着来自父母的怨恨和情感绑架。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">毕淑敏在著作《爱怕什么》说到：生与死之间，是孤独的人生旅程，保有一份真爱，就是照耀人生得以温暖的灯。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">无论是孩子还是成人，从生到死，都不过是追寻爱获得爱的过程。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子因父母的婚姻原因，遗失了本该属于他的父爱或母爱，他的性格养成将受到无法预想的不良影响，他的人生也因此有缺憾。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻结束的本身、谁是过错方、谁分的财产更多点、后来的孩子跟谁生活等等，这些都不是伤害孩子的根本。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">对孩子最高级别的伤害：</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">是因此被剥夺了父或母的爱；</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">是自己父母间恶毒的诋毁、失控的抱怨和仇视。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这些情绪和行为，无情地离间孩子与父母的感情，摧毁了孩子曾视为最安全可靠的依赖。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">并残酷地宣告了一个事实：在这个世界上，本该最爱你的人，不爱你；不仅不爱你，他/她还是个丧心病狂的恶人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，如果孩子因父母离婚后的单亲成长过程出现自暴自弃、放纵自毁、郁郁寡欢甚至犯了无以弥补的过错，是不被爱不被陪伴衍生而来的迷茫，绝望，生无可恋；是父母相互诋毁、相互厮杀衍生而来的宿命。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #FFFFFF;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: #A30911;"> 03 </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">貌合神离的婚姻更伤孩子！</span></strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当然，并不是说父母就该为了孩子不受以上伤害，无论多痛苦多煎熬，也要咬牙保全婚姻的完整。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">万事皆有因果，当婚姻走到尽头，无法挽回，委曲求全地维持一段貌合神离的婚姻关系，把日子过得鸡犬不宁，伤痕累累，也终是扼杀孩子对生活，对爱情，对未来的所有美好想象。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">哲学家弗洛姆曾说过：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当一个不幸的婚姻面临解体时，父母认定他们的分离会剥夺一个完整的家庭给孩子的幸福。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">然而，研究表明，对孩子来说，家庭中紧张和不愉快的气氛，比公开的决裂更有害，因为后者至少教育孩子，人能够靠勇敢的决断，结束一种不可容忍的生活状况。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当离婚事件上升到两方家庭的战争，所有的悲痛欲绝，呼天抢地，都是命运转折及各人性格的必然历程。</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">情节上的跌宕起伏或纷繁复杂或痛不欲生，对于成人来说，都应具备承担接受的能力，也可以用时间来自我疗愈。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但那些孩子呢，他们柔弱无知，敏感怯懦，他们抵挡不了父母间相互厮杀所带来的伤害。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">给孩子最深思熟虑的爱和保护，是诚实、智慧、勇敢地面对自己的婚姻和选择，并守住孩子内心的安全感。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #FFFFFF;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: #A30911;"> 04 </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">只有这样做，孩子才不会那么伤！</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果人生真要面对离婚时，对待孩子有两点定要做到：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1. 告诉孩子，父母永远爱他。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">最好双方一起向孩子公布父母离婚的消息，跳过那些不好的细节，真诚并简洁地告诉孩子：”爸爸妈妈很难一起相处，所以我们一致认为最好不要生活在一起了，但我们仍然是你的父母，还是会一样爱你，而且会永远爱你。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2. 不要在孩子面前相互厮杀、抵毁。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span></strong></span></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要用恶毒的语言诽谤、诋毁对方；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要对着孩子哭闹、诉说委屈；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要当着孩子的面争论抚养问题；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要迫使孩子选择其立场；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要问孩子是爸爸错了还是妈妈错了；</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要阻止孩子见爸爸或妈妈。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要对孩子说：我为了你，如何如何。</span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我有位发小闺蜜，她的父母就是离异的，在她的记忆里，仅是有一天，妈妈搬出去了，然后她妈妈依然每周来接她去玩，有时她爸爸也一起。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她曾说，父母离婚对她并没负面影响，她觉得父母只是选择自己要过的人生，而且通过父母，她坚信要嫁给爱情，即便不爱了也要好聚好散。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">她后来确实嫁给了爱情，结婚那天，她父母都带了再婚的伴来参加婚礼，一大家子其乐融融的模样，真是美好到让人感叹，而她现在的婚姻也依然幸福。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">好合好散的夫妻，即便离婚，也不会给孩子留下太多不良影响，反而会给孩子树立妥善处理复杂情感的好典范。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #FFFFFF;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: #A30911;"> 05 </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们都曾梦想着婚姻的模样是：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">择一城终老，遇一人白首，育一孩成才。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">只是，人生路漫漫，世事更是无常，当命运的心血来潮，那些曾经的山盟海誓，和谐美满可以瞬间烟消云散。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果真的不幸遇婚姻走到曲终人散，无以挽回，请笑着和对方说再见，纵然这个过程艰难无比，纵然你惶恐不安，有伤痛撕心裂肺，但人生还要继续，且你的生命不再只有自己，你还有想拼尽全力去爱的孩子！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 10px;margin-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-ligatures: normal;orphans: 2;widows: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: #3F3F3F;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当你漂亮完成人生这些转折和蜕变，你终会发现惊魂会平定，劫后会重生！</span></strong></span></p></section>
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